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My Mother's Wedding Video (Happy First Anniversary Jeri & Hal!)

My radiant Mom, Jeri, on her wedding day, with my beautiful sister, Heidi, and me last September.

There is nothing that makes a daughter happier than knowing her mother is enjoying life and love to the fullest.  My mom, Jeri, and my new Step-father, Hal, have enjoyed an uncommonly rich romance, a heartfelt and memorable wedding celebration, and a European honeymoon in the last two years. It's safe to say, this daughter is extremely happy for these two, especially as they celebrate their first wedding anniversary.

This is the wedding video....it will make you cry happy tears!

Video credit to Jensen Films

For a peek at the wedding last year in A love story and a wedding,

the lucky in love story of how these two met in Love is just mean to be, and wedding planning in

A Sparkling Day Sneaks Up on You.

Happy Anniversary Mom and Hal!

We are blessed by welcoming this warm, wise, loving man, Hal, and his family, into our family.

Your love story is truly an inspiration for ageless love.

Scott and I could not be happier for you both and we love you dearly.

Cheers!

xx,

We're savoring the golden days of summer at my here!

New arrivals from Spain and Portugal!

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Breathless...Miscarriage and a Loss Remembered

It was just a flash, out of the corner of my eye,

as they walked passed the end of the aisle of the Target store yesterday.

A mother and daughter, arms casually entwined, sharing a laugh.

A beat and then a flood of recognition.....

I knew that mother ten years ago.

Breathless....a loss remembered

It was just a flash, out of the corner of my eye,

as they walked passed the end of the aisle of the Target store yesterday.

A mother and daughter, arms casually entwined, sharing a laugh.

A beat and then a flood of recognition.....

I knew that mother ten years ago.

 

A group of girlfriends, a shopping trip out of town,

and we were both 10 weeks pregnant.

We spent an hour trying on clothing for our expanding waistlines that day at the galleria.

It was my first pregnancy and her second.

Her marriage was shaky and she had mixed emotions.

 

I was 41, my husband's vasectomy reversal was successful,

and I was finally pregnant for the first time.

I was beyond thrilled!

For me, 

deliriously happy.....

sparkling days.......

Breathless......

 

We agreed to meet up for lunch at Nordstrom on that shopping day.

Paper shopping bags were unwrapped on command and new fashions--for the new chapter of life--

were shared with happy and congratulatory girlfriends.

 

A quick trip to the restroom before the drive home.

Spotting.........

"It's normal right? "

"Don't worry....it happened to a friend and her baby was fine."

 

Worry......

Hope and pray......

a tiny tear shed in the dark,

on the drive back home.

"Drink all the water you are able."

A shadowy examination room and the

kind technician smooths cool gel on my belly.

 

Watching her smile,

for any flickering sign of concern.....

I was 10 1/2 weeks pregnant.

 

"No heartbeat........I'm so sorry."

I can't get my breath......

Breathless

Ten years later, seeing the lovely mother and her daughter, laughing together,

I'm sure she is certain this was her path.

I believe I heard that her marriage survived the rocky times.

I am reminded of the hopefulness, and joy, of that chapter of life.

I remember the life that was lost, the dreams that died,

and the different path my life has taken by not becoming the mother I always dreamed of being.

 

New dreams have been created out of necessity.

New paths have been carved to enrich life in different ways.

It's the only way....but there are moments when we remember.

 

In bed last night, he pulls me close.

I don't want him to feel my falling tears.....

but he does.

  Somehow he just knows...... like he always does.

 

Breathless...

 It's been so many years, but the grief just sneaks up on you.

Do you sometimes feel it too?

Hugs today..

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Birthday in Paradise at Zoetry in Dominican Republic!

I've always been secretly happy that my birthday is on July 15th and smack dab in the middle of summer. It means I've never had to go to school and usually not to work on my birthday.

This year the timing was perfect for my birthday as we are enjoying our last couple of days in the tropical paradise of Dominican Republic.

My favorite birthday companion #spoiled me a bit

With a significant number of difficulties marking the beginning of our trip this phase at Zoetry Agua has been completely sublime.

This little guy has kept us company during breakfast on our terrace.

Some spa time made the birthday girl very happy.

I'm not politically minded and I thought it was fun to see that Jon Stewart had 'favorited' one of my tweets.

Our dinner with some of our new fabulous friends from the pool. We laughed and bombed out at a merengue dance lesson together later.

Thanks for making my birthday perfect and hopefully we will all end up at Zoetry again someday!

I just wanted to say a quick thank you for so many lovely birthday wishes on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and text.

I feel truly blessed this year that my world has expanded in so many

incredible ways. The connections I've made with Stylemindchic Life mean the world to me.

Happy Birthday to my lovely mom today! Though we are separated by distance our birthdays always

stand side by side (she always tells me I was an early birthday present).

Looking forward to celebrating together.

Thanks for stopping by Stylemindchic Life!

Can't wait to catch up with everyone on our return.

xx,

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